Weddings are a time to be happy. A time to celebrate love and family. This is true for most people. Sometimes, things can get difficult and couples can find themselves in the middle of a nightmare. Blended families pose a tricky situation, especially if everyone is not on good terms. Here are some suggestions for including step-parents, even if the relationship is not all warm and fuzzy.
1. Say it with words: Add a special acknowledgment in the ceremony program with their name. This gives them recognition at the wedding and something your step-parent can cherish for a long time. If the relationship is less than stellar, there is no need to go overboard. A simple, "Thanks for being a part of my life..."
2. Put them on the floral list: Make sure your step-parents have the appropriate floral hardware, a boutonniere or corsage.
3. Allow them to greet guests: At the reception, let them work the room, thanking guests for coming.
4. Allow them to light the unity tapers: If you are having a unity candle ceremony (or sand or rose ceremonies) as part of your wedding, have one of your step-parents do the honor of lighting a candle (or pouring sand, etc.).
If you found a way to incorporate your step-parents into your ceremony, please share how you did it, by commenting!











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