I spend so much time discussing the etiquette rules for hosts or hostesses, I thought that it was time that I turned my attention to the guests! Here are just a few rules for you:
1. R.S.V.P
As an event planner, I must admit that even I have forgotten to send in an R.S.V.P. card, a few times. Ok, a lot! LOL! As soon as you get the invitation in the mail or by email, respond. It makes planning so difficult when people have to chase their invitees down to see if they are coming. Guess what, people pay for those response cards for a reason. Use them!
2. Don't ask to bring other people
Sometimes people have a set limit to the amount of people that they can afford to invite. As a guest, we should be happy to be invited. If you feel uncomfortable going because you feel that you will be alone then consider not attending.
3. Be on your best behavior
An open bar does not mean drink as much as you can. Same for a buffet. A friend's party is not the time to settle an old argument.
4. Say Thank You
Everyone wants to know that they are appreciated and being thanked for something is a great start. Just think the host could've invited someone else, but chose you. Free food, drinks and music!? How often do you get all that for free?
